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Why Avoiding Confrontation Is Costing You as a Founder
As an entrepreneur, confrontation isn’t optional.
Whether you’re addressing underperformance, negotiating with a difficult partner, or setting boundaries with a demanding client, confrontation shows up at every level of growth.
But many founders avoid it.
They fear:
- Damaging business relationships
- Coming across as unprofessional
- Making things worse by saying the wrong thing
- Feeling out of control in emotionally charged moments
Here’s the hard truth:
Avoiding confrontation doesn’t protect your business — it weakens it.
Unspoken issues create dysfunction.
Resentment simmers under the surface.
And leadership authority quietly erodes.
Jorge Loebl puts it plainly:
“As an entrepreneur, confrontation isn’t optional. It’s a fundamental skill. If you avoid it, you’re not protecting relationships, you’re letting problems grow.”
Well-handled confrontation doesn’t destroy trust — it builds it.
Let’s talk about how.
DISCOVER: What’s Holding You Back From Addressing Issues Directly
1. Avoiding Tough Conversations to “Keep the Peace”
You want to protect your team, your client base, your brand.
So when someone underdelivers, you rationalize instead of addressing it.
But Loebl warns:
“The worst thing you can do as a business owner is avoid confrontation. You think you’re keeping the peace, but really, you’re creating resentment, inconsistency, and dysfunction in your team.”
Real peace comes from alignment, not silence.
2. Letting Emotions Take the Wheel
When your business is personal, every confrontation can feel like a threat.
You’re not just managing performance — you’re defending something you built.
“If you go into confrontation fueled by frustration or anger, it won’t end well. You need to separate emotion from facts, otherwise, you’re not solving a problem, you’re just venting.” — Jorge Loebl
Emotional reactions sabotage clarity.
You can be passionate and composed — but it takes practice.
3. Walking Into Confrontation Without a Plan
Most entrepreneurs weren’t trained for these conversations.
So they either wing it or avoid it entirely.
Without structure, things spiral:
- The conversation feels disjointed
- The other person shuts down
- You leave without clear outcomes
“If you don’t structure the conversation, it turns into chaos. You need to be clear on what you’re addressing, why it matters, and what outcome you expect.” — Jorge Loebl
Structure gives you control — even when emotions run high.
DESIGN: How to Lead Tough Conversations With Control
Mastering confrontation isn’t about being tough.
It’s about being clear, intentional, and outcome-driven.
Here’s the process:
Step 1: Prepare With Precision
Before you say a word, get clear:
- What’s the real issue — not just the surface frustration?
- What facts do you have?
- What result do you want from the conversation?
“Preparation is key. The biggest mistakes happen when entrepreneurs try to confront someone without knowing exactly what they want to say.” — Jorge Loebl
Write it down.
Rehearse it once or twice.
Then step in ready, not reactive.
Step 2: Focus on Behavior, Not Character
Emotion makes it personal.
Clarity makes it professional.
Instead of:
“You don’t care about this business.”
Try:
“In the past three weeks, deadlines for Project X were missed. Let’s discuss what happened and how we fix it.”
“If you attack the person instead of the problem, you lose control of the conversation. Keep it fact-based, and people will listen instead of reacting emotionally.” — Jorge Loebl
Step 3: Ask, Don’t Accuse
Accusations trigger defensiveness.
Questions invite reflection.
Try these:
- “What challenges led to this outcome?”
- “Can we align on what the real issue is?”
- “What solution would feel workable for both of us?”
“When you ask questions instead of making accusations, you create a conversation instead of a fight.” — Jorge Loebl
Step 4: Make Agreements, Not Assumptions
Every confrontation should lead to:
- A specific action
- A timeframe
- A clear next check-in
Otherwise, you’re just venting — not leading.
“Confrontation isn’t just about talking, it’s about creating change. Make sure both parties walk away knowing exactly what needs to happen next.” — Jorge Loebl
DELIVER: Tackle Real Business Conflicts With Confidence
Here’s how this structure applies to everyday business moments:
- Underperforming team member: Focus on data, not drama.
- Tense co-founder discussion: Lead with facts and shared goals.
- Client overstepping boundaries: Set clear expectations with professionalism.
You don’t need to be cold to be in control.
You need structure. And you need follow-through.
When you lead confrontation well, you lead everything else better.
The Entrepreneurial Advantage: Why Mastering Confrontation Matters
Avoiding confrontation leads to:
- Team breakdowns
- Low accountability
- Burnout from carrying everyone’s weight
Mastering confrontation brings:
- Clarity in your culture
- Respect from clients and employees
- Confidence in high-stakes moments
“A successful entrepreneur doesn’t avoid confrontation, they handle it well. If you want to build a strong business, you need to have tough conversations the right way.” — Jorge Loebl
Lead Hard Conversations With Confidence
If you’re building something that matters, you can’t afford to avoid the tough conversations.
Inside our Memberships, you’ll learn how to lead conflict with clarity, handle difficult clients or employees without blowing up, and build a business culture grounded in trust and accountability.